Sunday, November 29, 2009

blessings

Hello,

At 8:00 last night, Leroy and I had been home for about six hours. All travel things were put away and Leroy was upstairs doing who knows what in the office, while I was putting away the odd item in the kitchen. Bang, bang, bang. “What is Leroy doing?” I wondered.

Bang, bang, bang. “That is closer. Someone must be at the door,” I thought. In the porch light the Ukrainian pastor could be seen with a rather large bag in his arms.

“Tomorrow we aren’t having the Thanksgiving meal at the church,” he said handing me the bag, “so I brought you some food. We are sorry that we will not be able to be there.”

The bag contained a large round tray that held a bit less than half a Slovak looking cake, almost a foot long two to three inch in diameter sausage, and a bowl filled with cabbage rolls. Unexpected blessings pressed down and running over!

This season will be a tempting one as from the small church Leroy brought home cream puffs the size of a half dollar. I have great resistance skills in the store, but none at all when it is in the house. Sigh!

Also on the food front, Brian sent home some delicious squash soup. What a vacation! Tomorrow meal preparation will start again.

The desktop picture on the computer is a picture of the four little girls in the bathtub. Three noses, five eyes, five ears, four heads seen mostly from the top, eight arms, eight legs, and some of four torsos are visible. Group pictures of the under three crowd are not a simple affair. It is especially true when there are other more interesting things to be doing than looking up at a camera.

Paula

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Victim

Hello,

Yesterday I was talking to Brian and Sophia on the webcam when a message came from Sonya. There was a girl from Slovakia called Sonya. Thinking it was her, I wrote back and said Hi, but I was talking to my son. I assumed that would be the end of that, but then a reply came, indicating that she wanted to talk. Using more clear language I reported that it was not a good time for me and I would get back later. Next came a message from her stating that she wanted to start the webcam and we could get naked together. I then told Brian about it and he told me how to delete this person since I now know that it is not my friend. Email addresses are not always a clear signal of who you might be talking with.

The strange part about it is that I felt violated even though nothing had really happened. Being a victim is a strange position to be in. There was even a bit of an edge that I might have caused it and I was disgusted with myself that I was careless about letting this person get on my network. At least I learned how to quickly delete someone from the list. Experience is a good teacher.

Today is the day to make cinnamon rolls, saffron buns, and granola. Because I put mashed potatoes in the cinnamon dough I was up at 6:00 this morning peeling potatoes. Nice way to start the day. One thing about yeast breads they do not require constant care so that is helpful when doing more things at the same time.

Tomorrow morning Leroy and I will get up at 4:00 and hopefully start traveling at 4:15 so we can pick up Sarah, Stephen, and Lexi at the airport at 9:55 or a bit later. It is just right at six hours of driving according to map quest and I know that I must make one or two stops hence the extra half hour of travel time.

Leroy visited someone at the hospital. On the way home he stopped at a store and bought himself a tool box. He is happy. I guess that is Christmas.
Paula

Monday, November 23, 2009

Nature abounds

Hello,

The day was beautiful so a longer walk was in order. Suddenly there was a cackling of crows that grew louder and more forceful. Then they could be seen flying, however the front bird was not a crow, but appeared to be an owl. The owl settled near the top of a fir tree with its back to me. Even changing my position and getting closer did not give me a good look at it so I started to walk past the tree. Just then a rabbit darted across the lawn. The bird swooped down on it as it ran around the house.

“Oh I hope that bunny got away,” a voice said.

“I don’t know,” I replied as I walked to the side of the house.

“The hawk is in the tree, but he has no bunny,” I told her.

“That is good,” she said. I had been thinking that is one way to get rid of some of the large rabbit population.

She must have seen some of that on my face because she went on, “I watch those nature programs and I know about the cycles in nature, but nobody wants the predators to win.”

“Um,” was all I said to that. Maybe it is the farm girl coming through, but the thought was, isn’t man the biggest predator. Seems to be the same whether it is in the grass or the grocery store, something is killed and eaten. Separating it from the body and putting it in plastic does not change the facts.

Speaking of which, the Ukrainian pastor dropped off a duck and a chicken last night. It is interesting that the duck is bigger than the chicken if I have identified them correctly. I will have to think of something to give them in return. Perhaps some cinnamon rolls would be welcome.

Paula

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Walking in the dark

Hello,

Women have a bible study on Thursday night. The meetings are in homes. I left the house with confidence since I had gone last week to find my hostess in her housecoat and clearly not expecting anyone. Oops! I was a week early.

The evening was cool, but calm so walking was a great mode of transportation. With my blinking armband I was clearly visible to the drivers when I had to walk on the street. Sidewalk is not everywhere and some places it is so cracked that walking on it is hazardous. There were no trains consequently it was easy to get to the other side of town. Walking past the park I remembered that the sidewalk ended up ahead with a little dip. No street lights illuminated this area so I thrust my foot out a good distance before I let it down in the grass. Water rushed over my shoe and licked at the back of my jean leg. Leaping on I got to the other side without immersing the other foot.

“Grumble, grumble,” I said to myself, but then I realized that I was lucky it was not 30 degrees. Even though I still had perhaps half a mile to walk it was not totally uncomfortable. Besides wool socks help to wick moisture away from the skin. My hostess put my shoe and my sock on the register. She also loaned me her slippers. Looking at her tiny feet before she brought them, I said, “I have big feet.”

“These are big slippers,” she assured me.

My big is bigger than her big. They were small slippers, but I managed to put my foot in so it was not so cold.

We will go to Brian’s house on Wednesday to celebrate Thanksgiving. At that time we will give the kids gifts. We are almost done with those purchases. There are even a few surprises in there. One I had no intention of giving them until today. Leroy is not so sure it is a good idea. I will tell you later what the reaction is.

Paula

Thursday, November 19, 2009

cleaning

Hello,

How many “just in case we might need it” shoelaces do we need? Because of a broken lace, Leroy looked for a replacement that he found along with innumerable others. Some were new and pristine in the package and some had obviously had a period of service. Leroy was just ready to shove them back in the shoe box storage when I intervened.

“I will sort them if you leave them out.” I said.

Well it took a while to get the job done, but I did it. Some where thrown out, pairs were bundled together, and singles gathered and tied loosely so it was not such a tangled mess. Leroy wanted to throw out some more, but I would not let him since I had made them into such a neat pile.

There was also shoe polish, watches (Leroy’s), glasses cases (Leroy’s), and locks for suitcases. The locks were for back in the old days when we very carefully locked every suitcase, just in case.

While I was on a roll I tackled Leroy’s closet. Leroy has some sweaters that he complains about all the time since they are too large. After looking at those he got rid of all three of them plus two sweatshirts, one that he did not like and one that is worn at the sleeve ends. I call this a productive day.

Leroy cleaned the faucet knobs in the bathrooms and the kitchen. I am so pleased whenever I look at them. I had had no idea they were dirty. Amazing how some dirt can blend in with the item.

Paula

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Drying clothes

Hello,

Because it was raining it was a treat to dry clothes in the dryer. They do come out lint free and fluffier than on the line. It is also less work and for me means fewer trips up and down the stairs to the basement. Wait! I think it is the same number of trips on the steps because after I put them in the dryer I have to go back down to check them or get them out.

I still like seeing the wind whipping them horizontal, but a change is nice sometimes.

I do have a clothes rack in the basement, but do not use it much since it is a bit damp down there and it takes a long time for them to dry. I miss the radiator heat in Slovakia where I could put the clothes and get moisture in the air as they dried.

Last night Leroy visited some people and reported when he came home, “I hit a skunk just after another car had killed it. The outside of the car smells.”

“Just the outside?” I wanted to know.

“I did not notice it so much, but the garage is stinky now,” he said.

When putting out some garbage it was indeed quite filled with aroma even though the car was gone. The side door is now open to create a flow of ventilation.

I will have to get in the car to see if Leroy is accurate in his relation of the facts.

Paula

Roses, geraniums, marigolds, dianthus, and daisies are still blooming. So lovely.

Monday, November 16, 2009

Money Matters

Hello,

I have spent much of my life not spending money or at least spending it very carefully. Now that I am approaching an older age I have become much more carefree in the spending area. Don’t believe that as it is only true in certain instances and on certain days.

Shoe buying is something that I detest because I have such large feet that my choices have often been limited or maybe even not really existing. Hiding my feet under my desk at school partially hid the evidence, but there was no hope in the shoe store. Back in those days trying on shoes with a clerk is the only way I remember it happening. On one occasion my feet were larger than children’s shoes. Girls, however, did not wear women’s shoes. There were only two pairs in the store that fit me and I did not like either one. In disgust the salesman went over to another clerk and said loudly, “You take her and can’t do a thing with her.”
The rest of the incident is blocked from my mind. I suspect that I chose one of the pairs that I did not like just to get out of there. We lived about 40-50 miles from Dubuque and shopping was a big trip only done once in a while.

No longer is it necessary to face a person sizing my feet. When we visit Brian I go to a shoe store in their area that has many sizes and a great bargain room. I now spend more money on shoes and have gotten some that actually fit me and feel good on my feet. I suspect that should have been happening for years as I have developed some painful areas in my toes.

Going on to another money matter, I mentioned to Leroy that I was sorry that I had never gotten the accompaniment ed. of the With One Voice hymnal. Leroy promptly looked online to learn the cost as surely someone would be selling it. New it is selling for $37.50 and used it is selling for $114 up to $238.47. Does that make any sense?

Paula

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Working on the plane

Hello,

On the way home from Salt Lake we got settled on the plane in Denver to begin the last part of the trip. Looking out the window two guys could be seen by the wheels. Then it was clear that one wheel had been removed. They then put on a new wheel complete with much better tread than the remaining tire.
After a while the pilot announced that we would be going as soon as they changed the tire and brought up the paperwork to be completed. In the mean time they even let someone else on the plane as we waited. What a deal for them since they had come in on a connecting flight. We must have made up 25 minutes in the air because we landed almost on time.

When the plane touches down the wheels move up quite a ways before there is any bump. Again new learning abounds. Landing was beautiful as the trees close to the airport appeared to be in their prime display. It is a gift. The best things in life are free, but do we believe that? Some days, yes.

On the road four deer were silhouetted against the sky as they moved from one side to the other. Beautiful sight again.

That was almost a month ago and our rain gauge had five inches of water in it. Now it has been dry enough that much of the harvesting is finished. So farmers can relax a bit.

Tonight we go to the high school play, Joseph and the Technicolor Dream Coat. Local entertainment can be good.

Paula

Friday, November 13, 2009

First Day home

Hello,

I am not sure how it happens, but first day home is always busy. We saw a beautiful sunrise and then things went downhill.

Leroy had started the oatmeal water, but had gone in the living room to look at the paper. I walked past the water boiling on the stove and commented, “It is boiling away.”

Leroy became upset as he felt I was criticizing him. Then we had a rather long involved discussion of what all this meant. I am not sure that I felt so critical, but maybe I am not honest with myself. After all I like to look good to the rest of the world. At the end of the discussion Leroy said, “I feel that this has just fouled up the air.”

How different we are because I see it as keeping it from festering if we don’t talk about it. Amazing, it is that we can have a totally opposite take on the same situation. Course, we both think we are right and that is where the real trouble lies.

Besides this start to the day I washed and hung out two loads of clothes that the wind whipped and fluffed nicely. Then it was on to making a batch of bread some of which turned into pizza crust.

Before the laundry there was yoga and t’ai chi. I feel better for getting that stretching and movement done.

There was a trip to the library and the grocery store to fortify me as well.

A fern that was dripping leaves got moved to a bedroom with no carpeting, but I just read that they can be put in the basement for the winter without harming them. I might do that as these constantly falling leaves could send me to the funny farm.

Paula

Monday, November 9, 2009

In Minnesota

Hello,

Leroy is taking a continuing ed. class and I am visiting, kissing, hugging, giggling with, and chasing Sophia around. Sometimes I even talk to Brian and Jen just to let them know that I think they are ok too.

Our trip up was beautiful and uneventful except for the 15 dead deer deteriorating along side the road. We felt a little less comfortable driving 70 mph as the sun got lower in the sky. What could it be like to hit a deer at that speed? Perhaps it would be a bit jarring.

Brian is home today so we made ravioli and froze it for Thanksgiving when the rest of the family will be here. On the day we decide to have it we just need to make the sauce and boil the squares. The pieces are not really square, but oblong and whatever we could manage. All home made and not machine cut.

It is a beautiful warm day again today even in the north country. Brian has a portable burn pit so we had a fire last night in the yard. It was quite nice.

On Saturday morning Leroy and I went to the state park and the fire in the morning is not so nice with the sun lightening the sky as the fire that glows in the dark.

Leroy’s class is learning about the new generation and how to appeal to them. Do you think he can jump the generation gap or is it two or three gaps by now?

Paula

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Another Airplane Incident

Hello,

We changed planes in Denver on our way to Salt Lake. Everything was fine, but then as we got in line to take off there was a little beep. The guy sitting next to Leroy had something in his hands. Could he be playing games even though the announcement had come that all electronics were to be turned off? Soon there was another beep and the phone was clearly visible.

Do you suppose it really makes that much difference? A guy sitting across the aisle told him to turn it off.

“It is none of your business,” the game player said as he continued.
They exchanged a few more heated words when the guy across the aisle called the flight attendant who was already seated and buckled up for take off. We were about third in line.

“If this is a real emergency,” she announced over the speaker, “press the button again.”

The button was pressed again and the attendant rapidly came back to us.

“What is the problem?” she asked.

“He is still playing games,” our reported said.

“That is not a real emergency when we are ready to take off. A heart attack or some other serious health issue is,” she said tersely as she turned to the game player who had slipped his phone into the seat pocket, “It should be turned off

She went back up and sat down, announcing that, “It is FFA regulations that all electronic equipment must be turned off for take off and landing.”

After that our game player put his head back, closed his eyes and appeared to be sleeping for the rest of the flight.

Paula

Friday, November 6, 2009

Salt Lake trip

Hello,

Even though it was almost three weeks ago I still want to tell you some of the highlights of our trip to SLC. We drove to the Omaha airport in the dark. It was an easy trip with no deer fighting for the same spot in the universe. The car went to the cheap long term lot with no trouble. The shuttle was there before all of the two carry-on bags were out of the car.

At the security check the guys were looking at, pointing at the screen, and talking about my bag as it went through the scan.

“We have to get someone over here,” one of them said.

When the third guy came he also looked than asked me as I was standing there waiting, “Is this your bag?”

“Yes,” I responded.

“Did you pack any sharp objects?” he asked.

I started reviewing contents in my mind. I had a lot of old Barbie dolls and clothes in there. Did Barbie have a sword, sharp leg, sharp toe, or something like that?
“You did pack this bag?” he asked a bit more sternly.

“Yes, but I can’t think of anything besides Barbie things.” I mused.

“We will have to look in it,” he firmly stated.

The bag was pulled aside to another table, unzipped, and out came a ten inch cucumber in a plastic bag.

“Oh it is a cucumber,” he said in relief.

“Yes it was the last one in the garden and I could not leave it there,” I said as I took my bag back. “I had been afraid that it might have too much water in it, but did not see it as sharp.”

“It was really the length and shape that fooled us,” he said with a grin.

Paula

Thursday, November 5, 2009

More on Leroy's health numbers

Hello,

Leroy got the rest of his blood work report. Two or three things were low, but we do not even know what the initials stand for so we think he is just ok. We did look up one thing that was the low sodium and the suggestion was that he had drunk too much water. He does drink a lot of water so it could easily be true. We can all be reduced to a list of chemicals. Amazing how it all goes together to make someone as interesting as Leroy.

On my errand run to the library I noticed that a store had out some summer things with the sign stating 90% off. That grabbed my attention. There were some Capri pants in a light blue and others in tan. There were also shorts in sizes that might fit Leroy. I took some of the pants for me and asked if I could try them on.

“Yes but the only place is in the bathroom,” she said and then added, “They are only a penny so it does not matter too much.”

“Are you sure?” I asked, “I thought they would be a dollar.”

They fit me ok though a little big, but I like things bigger rather than small, especially for working around the house. So I got two of them one of each color and took a pair of the shorts that I figured was closest to Leroy’s size. As I was starting to check out I asked, “If these do not fit my husband can I bring them back?”

“Sure,” she said.

So I got two pair of shorts for Leroy thinking one will fit. My bill for all four was 4 cents. Can you believe it? The smaller pair fits Leroy, but I will just keep the other and we will see if it fits Brian as the son-in-laws are probably smaller than Leroy.

Pressed down and running over.

Paula

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Leroy's health numbers

Hello,

I was pleased with my cholesterol, but Leroy beats me platelets down. His total dropped from 188 to 154. His LDL dropped from 133 to 92. His Triglycerides are still higher than mine, but at the drop from 101 to 68 they are very good.

Why did this happen? Is it the vinegar and honey? Cutting cheese consumption in half? Exercising more by riding the bike so much? This is not a very scientific study since we made more than one change at a time. But we are glad that something has helped. Leroy and I have both lost a little bit of weight too.

One more detail from the Washington trip. We went to a baseball game. Now I have not been to a game in at least ten years and that was in Moorhead to some type of more local team. This was the Nationals (I hope I got that name correct.) at their stadium. Part of the deal with going to games is all of the extras such as food, music, visiting, and flashing scoreboards. The game may even be secondary to all of the rest.

Even getting to the game was an adventure. We drove to a large free parking lot outside of a stadium. Silly me, I thought we had arrived. Instead we got on a free bus and drove on to another location from which we walked about five minutes to the stadium. Not so much parking available by this stadium hence the need to bus people.
Even at 61 years old I can learn a lot, but do I want to learn it all, probably not. Ignorance can be bliss. However, I do actually enjoy baseball because I know the rules, but I can not imagine spending much time watching it, especially when it is on TV.

Paula