Hello,
Leroy was feeling much better
yesterday, not totally well, but better so I asked him to help me divide the
fern which had reached the limits of growth in its pot. Before we started we
took a before picture with first one and then the other of us standing by it. Then
we gathered tools, gloves, and pots. It was a question of whether we could cut
into three good pieces or if we should go for four. Leroy declared, “Four would
be easiest.”
“Yes, but I think three was what I did
last time and it would make a larger result.” I countered.
I got the fern out of its pot and laid
it on the table. Leroy was in the garage so I went to see how he was gathering
the saw for such a long time. He could not decide which saw was best. I
suggested one and of course he immediately realized that the other saw was
better. Great, I eliminated choices for him.
I remember doing that for Miriam when
she could not decide what to wear. It was a rare day when she went with my
choice, but she often asked for help. I would get disgusted. Finally a wise
friend told me, “You did help, you eliminated choices for her.” That calmed my
soul. It was almost a game in my mind which could I pick that she would not
wear.
Leroy got the proper saw and attacked
this fern with vigor. We ended with three fairly even chunks and one very small
bit that was a single root or appeared to be. I also have after pictures.
Paula
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